It never fails to amaze me how many people who have messed up royally in relationships, are in denial of some sort. Sometimes you would swear if listening to their perspective of it, that they are the innocent parties in it all. And yet when you hear the other side, and often you hear person after person supporting each other in what the miscreant who sees themselves as the victim in it all, you know that the bleeding heart, and victim complex they have put out, is nothing but sinful blindness, or deliberate lies or selective memory.

I saw one real life case such as this yesterday on TV. Obviously factual. A mother who has been estranged from her daughters for twenty years, who had left them when they were babies. Blamed her sister, and everyone else, yet the truth was, she preferred fornicating with any man that came along rather than taking care of her children. She threw one of her babies across the room, when it was tiny, yet claimed she couldn’t remember. She left her also at eighteen months old, sat on a suitcase in a car park, with all the childs clothes in the suitcase and walked off and left her there. Again, she claimed she couldn’t remember, and blamed post natal depression was the reason. At 18 months old that takes a lot of swallowing, and even if it was, she should have gotten the help she needed instead of so badly damaging her children. Her sister, her own mother, who had taken her granchildren in, and cared for them, all testified against her, and all said the same things were true. Yet this woman, who was the biological mother, sat on the stage blaming everyone else. She was real plausible with the things she said. Everything she said appealed to most peoples natural predjudices so would alreayd be against things like that. Yet even so, the evidence and testimony of multiple family members of hers, that all said the same thing, all said liar about her version of events.

But she could go off home, still without any relationship with her daughters because they didn’t want to knwo her, they are adults now. And she could tell any, Tom, Dick or Harry the same story she told on the show, and if those folks had not seen the show, they would have no reason to think she was lying or decieving. They would probably buy it hook line and sinker, and the real victims of her actions, would be the ones who in her circles were thought to be the bad guys.

Justice can seem to be very unfair sometimes. It’s a good job we have the next world, to know that Justice is dealt out in due time, and God does deal with everyone, eithe rthis life or the next, in one way or another. She could spin her version of events to her circles she now has, and they would feel pity and sympathy for her no doubt. Even though there is not one shred of truth to it, as was clearly demonstrated by her own family. She can even decieve herself and choose to think how she sees it is the truth. Yet we all face the Supreme Judge at some time, and all deceptions whether to self or others, will have to be accounted for. But, in this world, in scenarios such as these, life can and does often seem very unfair and unjust. The perpetrator of a “crime” becomes the ‘victim’ while the real ‘victim’ is the one who will often be blamed and thought poorly of.